🌸 🗓️ TechSheThink 5-Week Article Series: “The Empowerment Stack”

You know that voice that whispers, “You’re going to mess this up” just as you open your laptop? That’s your inner critic, and spoiler: it’s running buggy software. Who Are the Confidence Hackers?

What Is the Inner Critic?

It’s the pop-up window that appears right before you pitch an idea, apply for that senior role, or say yes to a project that excites (and terrifies) you.
It says:

• “You’re not experienced enough.”

• “Everyone will find out you don’t know what you’re doing.”

• “Play it safe. Less risk. Less failure.”

But here’s the debug note: those aren’t errors you created—they’re inherited scripts. From workplaces that rewarded silence, from biases baked into teams, from a culture that told women in tech to “earn their seat” twice.

Step 1: Trace the Error Log

Debugging starts with observation.

• Where does your criticism show up most?

• Is it linked to specific people or tasks?

• Does it use “always/never” language? (Clue: that’s rarely true.)

Step 2: Run a System Test

Ask:

• Is this fear based on facts or forecasts?

• If I did the opposite of what this critic says, what’s the worst-case outcome?

• What data disproves this voice?

Step 3: Replace the Faulty Code

Every time that critic runs, overwrite it with:

• “I’m learning in public, not failing in private.”

• “Version 1.0 is still progress.”

• “Done beats perfect—every single time.”

Why Debugging Matters

Unchecked, your inner critic becomes a rootkit—deep in your operating system, quietly limiting what you apply for, what you ask for, and how you lead.

Tech needs your perspective. Your code, your strategy, your voice. Even if it quivers.

Your Next Step

• Identify one recurring critical script this week.

• Rewrite it with a new, empowering line.

• Add it to your Tech Wins Folder from Week 1.

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